Mukebesa and Inongwe are growing well.
Their mom's mental health is slowly getting better - although quite typical to mental health issues it is not a straight forward climb to wellness.
Precious, the mom, and Faith, 5 year old daughter, are visiting Kasensa this w/e so we can see how Precious is doing around the babies.
I'll spend some time today with her....observing and coaching.
Friday, January 31, 2014
Very special people!
Heintz and Ruth Mueller with son, Joachin (visiting from Germany)
Heintz is now 90 years old and Ruth is not far behind.
They've been married 60 + years.
Nearly every sunday we have tea with them. They are SPECIAL people. They've lived long and faithful lives. Their lives truly have been a sweet, smelling sacrifice to our Lord. Their lives have always been centred on God's work.
These are ones for sure that if we read between the lines we'd see their names in the book of Hebrews!
Thank you God for giving us faithful examples always!
Heintz is now 90 years old and Ruth is not far behind.
They've been married 60 + years.
Nearly every sunday we have tea with them. They are SPECIAL people. They've lived long and faithful lives. Their lives truly have been a sweet, smelling sacrifice to our Lord. Their lives have always been centred on God's work.
These are ones for sure that if we read between the lines we'd see their names in the book of Hebrews!
Thank you God for giving us faithful examples always!
Everistor
Born last week, Everistor, was brought by his aunt.
The funeral was over, it was a weekend, SW office was closed, they stayed the night. They slept in a room at Kasensa and went to SW the following morning.
Because the baby is out of district, SW is attempting to get the investigation done in that district, and hopefully return the baby to that area.
We'll see the aunty tomorrow and ask her if she'll take the child back to that area and meet with the extended family.
The funeral was over, it was a weekend, SW office was closed, they stayed the night. They slept in a room at Kasensa and went to SW the following morning.
Because the baby is out of district, SW is attempting to get the investigation done in that district, and hopefully return the baby to that area.
We'll see the aunty tomorrow and ask her if she'll take the child back to that area and meet with the extended family.
Saturday, January 18, 2014
Tiff and Layne visited Abraham's home.
Tiffany and Layne brought some books to Abraham and his family. Neighbour children were also happy to meet them and to see what they had brought. The older children were very willing to speak to Tiffany and Layne, but Abraham stayed close to his mom for some time.
Elijah, Dorcas and Junior (holding the books). The other kids are friends!
Abraham is out front -
Elijah, Dorcas and Junior (holding the books). The other kids are friends!
Abraham is out front -
Tiff and Layne at the Falls .
Tiff and Layne were with us for 17 days. We enjoyed every minute!
Besides baby care and village home visit we were able to share with them much rural Zambian culture.
More pics to follow!
Besides baby care and village home visit we were able to share with them much rural Zambian culture.
More pics to follow!
Sign Posts erected
Now, there is no excuse to get lost to SFF!
Although there could have been as the sign painting got interesting with arrows pointing the wrong way....mis-spellings...
But...with lots of hard work on behalf of Jackson M, Jackson T, Lukas and Richard and then Tiff and Layne....there is now signage to the farm!
Although there could have been as the sign painting got interesting with arrows pointing the wrong way....mis-spellings...
But...with lots of hard work on behalf of Jackson M, Jackson T, Lukas and Richard and then Tiff and Layne....there is now signage to the farm!
Home visit to Cornolius
He stays with his paternal aunty in a household a bit of a distance from her brother (this uncle). Sorry that this photo is so dark, will try to dig up another! Cornolius is quite attached to her. She is loving and caring.
Tiffany and Layne were with us and therefore Cornolius received books and crayons! He was impressed and seemed to know what to do with them!
The family household has assetts: cattle, chickens and maize. Their households are organized and the paternal uncle and the father have jobs and piece work.
And ....Cornolius has emotional support. Cornolius seems to be well integrated into the family and has no health issues. The school is very close by and the other children all appear healthy and of good weights.
This family, although still very poor materially by N. American standards, will be able to care for their children as long as no major crisis hits and as long as they continue to practice their faith and good relationship skills!
Inonge and Mukubesa arrive....
Left to right: Precious, Mukubesa, Granny, Carol (Precious's sister who also has 4 year old twins and stays with the parents), Inonge, and Lillian - Kasensa staff) |
January 3rd Mukubesa (male) and Inonge (female) 10 week old twins arrived accompanied by their maternal grandmother, Cecelia and their dad, James.
The twins' mother, Precious had been having mental health issues over the past several weeks which had led to neglect of the babies.
Precious, the twins and the 5 year old daughter Faith had been staying with Precious's parents at Simakakata since the baby's birth and since Precious's psychosis had worsened the husband and granny felt the twins were no longer safe. Due to her deteriorating mental state of increasing auditory hallucinations resulting in pre-occupation ++ Precious had not been breastfeeding the babies regularly and on January 2 had thrown cold water on them.
As has become the culture, the family brought the twins to stay at Kasensa before first being assessed by Social Welfare in Kalomo.
But....over the past few months much work has been done to have the orphan homes in the Kalomo District work towards 100% compliance with the 2009 Child Care Facilities Minimum Standards document on the process of admissions.
The process that is to be followed according to the Government document is
- a full social welfare investigation and report must be done
- a committal order from the courts
- a police report (when warranted)
- and a birth certificate and under 5 health card must be produced
Our staff have all been instructed in what to do when a family comes with a baby, that is not to accept any baby unless ALL of this paper work is complete. So the family returned to SW office that afternoon.
The paper work could not be completed at that time, due to a medical report that needed to be done to confirm the mental health issues of Precious and the committal order form could not be located.
Therefore, since all the paper work was not done and since Precious had been a physical threat to the babies it was decided that the granny and the babies would stay at Kasensa until SW had completed the paper work. SW gave permission verbally for this to happen.
Kasensa will only care for the babies independently once the paper work has been completed. A family member can remain at Kasensa if that is needed, but Kasensa staff does not care for the baby.
The next day Precious was evaluated at Kalomo Hospital. The typed medical report noting the degree of psychosis and her inability to care safely for the babies was delivered to SW office. She returned to Simakakata with Haldol 2.5 mg to be taken once a day and was to return the next day to be further assessed by a Clinical Officer who had mental health expertise.
I brought Precious to stay with us at Kasensa so I could further assess Precious. She was flouridly psychotic. She peered around corners, sometimes dashed here and there, was very pre-occupied most of the time, refused to take her meds, ate and drank only with encouragement, and with much hesitation, paid no attention to the babies, denied anything was wrong with her and at times laughed inappropriately. Other bizzare behavior was also noted.
Next day we took her back to Kalomo Hospital. She was compliant with the evaluation but once back at SW she refused to get out of the vehicle. Once out of the vehicle she headed off running to the market instead of being further assessed by the SW worker. We were able to get her back into the vehicle with 3 people helping (reminds me of a few other memorable days at another job!) where I drove directly back to hospital for her to be admitted. Precious's brain needed some time for healing!
Over the next week Precious was treated at the hospital with a good dosage of haldol and discharged back to her parents at Simakakata 4 days ago.
Some of the development lags in the "majority world" as noted in this case is the inability or inefficiency of being able to follow through with expected Government requirements that are designed to protect the child and to assist families and communities to better care for their children.
So in this case, we have a verbal agreement to have the twins stay here, the SW report is complete and the committal order process is partially complete. I am committed to seeing that the full processes are completed ASAP as all of us who are working in these jobs have committed to full compliance with the Government regulations. Its not about a crazy following of the letter of the law - its about caring enough for the children to see that the system is working for the children. A major role for CSO's or FBO's is to have relationship with government systems in order for systems to stay on track and even improve.
Perhaps the next time this process needs to be followed the time will be halved.
Precious is doing MUCH better! She is bright and attentive to the children. She's taking her meds willingly under her mother's supervision. (Her father is blind).
Yesterday, we took the twins to Simakakata for a 2 hour visit. It went very well. Precious enjoyed ++ seeing them and was about 75% engaged with them.
We'll take Precious for a review at Kalomo Hospital on January 28 and at that time make a plan for the twins to return home.
We'll have Precious and the 5 year old daughter spend a night here late next week so we can evaluate her involvement at a closer level.
In the past a baby from a mom with a mental disorder who was brought to Kasensa or any orphan home in the area would likely spend up to 2 years in care and likely the mom would not have received assessment and treatment to enable her to attempt to get well.
But...that was then, this now and all of us need to keep the ball rolling in this direction.....for the babies, for the families, the community and the nation.
Partnering, relationships and government working together towards better solutions!
FYI - Mukubesa - Losi name meaning king; Inonge - Losi name meaning....(not sure!)
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